Sometimes, sex can cause headaches, particularly around orgasm. A dull, aching feeling in your head and neck might get worse as you get more excited. Or, more often, you might get a sudden, intense headache just before or during climax.
Most headaches related to sex aren't cause for concern. However, some headaches during or after sex could be a sign of something more serious, like issues with the blood vessels that carry blood to your brain. If you have a headache that is unusually severe or different from your usual headaches, it's a good idea to talk to a doctor.
Sexual headaches can come in two main forms:
A gradual headache: This is a sort of dull pain, often starting in the head and neck. As you get more aroused, this pain gets stronger.
A sudden, intense headache: This type of headache is sharp and throbbing. It usually happens just before or right when you have an orgasm.
Sometimes, people experience both types of headaches during a single episode.
Most sexual headaches last for at least a few minutes. Some can last for hours, and in rare cases, they might even persist for two or three days.
These headaches can occur in clusters, meaning several headaches happen over a few months. After that cluster, there might be a period of a year or more without any headaches. Approximately half of those who get these headaches experience them within about six months. It's also possible to only have one such headache in your lifetime.
Headaches during sex are generally nothing to worry about. However, if you get a headache while having sex, especially if it starts suddenly or it's a new type of headache for you, see a doctor right away.
Having an orgasm can sometimes cause a headache. These headaches, called sex headaches, can start quickly or gradually. Many times, these headaches are just a normal reaction to sex and aren't connected to any other health problem.
However, some sex headaches might be a sign of a more serious issue. Sudden sex headaches could be linked to:
If your sex headache is accompanied by:
then it's more likely that there's an underlying medical condition causing the headache. You should see a doctor right away in these cases. These symptoms could signal a serious problem needing immediate medical attention.
Headaches during or after sex can happen to anyone, but some people are more likely to get them. These headaches aren't uncommon, and there are some factors that seem to increase the chance of experiencing them.
One factor is gender. Men tend to get these headaches more often than women. This doesn't mean women can't get them, just that men are statistically more likely to experience them.
Another factor is a history of migraines. If you've had migraines before, you might be more likely to get headaches during or after sex. Migraines are a type of severe headache, often accompanied by throbbing pain, sensitivity to light and sound, and sometimes nausea. Having a history of these kinds of headaches can make you more susceptible to similar issues related to sexual activity.
Headaches sometimes linked to sex can potentially be avoided by stopping sexual activity before reaching orgasm. A less active role during sex might also help reduce the risk of these headaches. This means focusing on pleasure and intimacy without necessarily needing to reach climax.
Doctors may recommend imaging tests to look for causes of your headache. These tests create pictures of your brain and blood vessels.
CT Scan: If your headache started recently (within 48-72 hours), a CT scan might be recommended. A CT scan uses X-rays and a computer to create detailed cross-sectional images of your brain and head. Think of it like taking many slices of your head to see the inside structures.
Cerebral Angiogram: Another test, called a cerebral angiogram, shows the blood vessels in your neck and brain. A thin, flexible tube is inserted into a blood vessel, often in your groin, and guided to an artery in your neck. A special dye (contrast material) is then injected through the tube. X-rays are taken to create pictures of the blood vessels. This helps doctors see if there are any blockages or problems with the blood vessels.
Lumbar Puncture (Spinal Tap): If your headache started suddenly and recently, and the brain imaging is normal, a spinal tap might be necessary. A spinal tap involves taking a small sample of the fluid surrounding your brain and spinal cord. This fluid can be checked for signs of bleeding or infection.
MRI Scan: An MRI scan of your brain can help doctors find the cause of your headache. MRI uses a powerful magnet and radio waves to create detailed images of the structures inside your brain.
MRA and CTA: Sometimes, doctors use MRA (Magnetic Resonance Angiography) or CTA (Computed Tomography Angiography). These tests create images of the blood vessels inside your brain and neck. They're similar to the cerebral angiogram, but they use different technology. The MRA uses a magnetic field and radio waves, while CTA uses X-rays and a computer.
Sometimes, your first headache after sex might also be your last. Many sex headaches go away quickly, before you even have time to take medicine.
If you've had sex headaches in the past and there's no other reason for them, your doctor might suggest taking medicine regularly to prevent them. This is only needed if you get headaches often or they last a long time.
Preventing headaches regularly:
Daily medications: Some everyday medications, like beta blockers (examples are propranolol or metoprolol), are often used for high blood pressure or heart problems, and can also help prevent migraines. Your doctor might recommend you take one of these every day if you have frequent or long-lasting sex headaches. Another option is a calcium channel blocker like verapamil, also used for high blood pressure. If you've had migraines before, your doctor might suggest other migraine prevention medicines.
Medications before sex: If you only need a medicine sometimes, you might take something like indomethacin (an anti-inflammatory) or a triptan (a type of migraine medicine) about an hour before sex. These can help prevent the headache from happening.
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