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ʻO nā ʻeha ulu nā ʻeha maʻamau e loaʻa i nā wāwae o nā keiki, ma ka nui i ka pō. Ua kapa ʻia lākou ʻo "nā ʻeha ulu" no ka mea e loaʻa pinepine ana i nā manawa e ulu wikiwiki ai nā keiki, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia nā iwi e lōʻihi ana ke kumu o ka ʻeha.
Hoʻopili kēia mau ʻeha ʻiʻo ʻino ʻole i kahi 25-40% o nā keiki ma waena o 3 a me 12 mau makahiki. ʻOiai hiki iā lākou ke ʻoluʻolu ʻole a hoʻāla paha i kāu keiki i ka pō, he mea maʻamau loa nā ʻeha ulu a ʻaʻole e hana i nā pilikia lōʻihi.
ʻO nā ʻeha ulu nā ʻeha ʻiʻo e loaʻa i nā keiki olakino, ʻoi aku ka nui ma ko lākou mau wāwae. E loaʻa pinepine ana ka ʻeha i ke awakea, ahiahi, a i ʻole i ka pō i ka wā e hoʻomaha ai kāu keiki a i ʻole e ho'āʻo e moe.
ʻAʻole pili pololei kēia mau ʻeha i ka ulu ʻana o nā iwi o kāu keiki, ʻoiai ko lākou inoa. Ma kahi o kēlā, ua hana ʻia paha lākou e ka hoʻohana maʻamau ʻana i nā ʻiʻo a me nā iwi mai ka holo ʻana, lele ʻana, a me ka pāʻani ʻana o kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi, he manawa pōkole nā ʻeha ulu. E ulu nui nā keiki iā lākou ma mua o ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio, a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻopilikia i ka ulu maʻamau a i ʻole ka hoʻomohala ʻana.
Loaʻa i nā ʻeha ulu kekahi mau ʻano kūikawā e kōkua i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā lākou mai nā ʻano ʻeha wāwae ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka hōʻailona nui loa, ʻo ia ka hele ʻana mai a me ka hele ʻana o ka ʻeha - hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻopiʻi i nā wāwae ʻeha i hoʻokahi pō, a laila e ʻoluʻolu loa i ka lā aʻe.
Eia nā hōʻailona maʻamau āu e ʻike ai:
Ua wehewehe ʻia ka ʻeha ma ke ʻano he ʻeha hohonu ma mua o ka ʻeha ʻoi a i ʻole ka ʻeha ʻoi. Pono e hiki i kāu keiki ke hele maʻamau i ka lā a komo i kā lākou mau hana maʻamau me ka ʻole o nā pilikia.
ʻAʻole maopopo loa ke kumu pololei o nā ʻeha ulu, akā manaʻo nā kauka ua pili lākou i ka pilikia kino maʻamau e hoʻokomo ai nā keiki ikaika i ko lākou mau ʻiʻo a me nā iwi e ulu ana. E noʻonoʻo iā ia ma ke ʻano he hana a ke kino o kāu keiki i ka holo ʻana, lele ʻana, a me ka pāʻani ʻana a lākou i ka lā.
He mau mea e hoʻopilikia ai i kēia mau ʻeha pō:
Ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka manaʻo kaulana, ʻaʻole i hana ʻia ka ʻeha e nā iwi e hoʻolōʻihi a ulu ana. E ulu mālie a me ka ʻole o ka ʻeha nā iwi. Ma kahi o kēlā, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻeha ulu i nā ʻiʻo a me nā hono o kāu keiki e pane ana i ko lākou ola ikaika.
ʻO ka nui o nā ʻeha ulu he mea ʻino ʻole a ʻaʻole pono i ka nānā ʻana o ke kauka. Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻaʻike i ke kauka o kāu keiki inā ʻokoʻa ka ʻeha mai nā ʻeha ulu maʻamau a i ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona hopohopo.
E hoʻonohonoho i kahi manawa inā loaʻa i kāu keiki:
E hilinaʻi i kāu mau manaʻo ma ke ʻano he mākua. Inā ʻokoʻa kekahi mea e pili ana i ka ʻeha o kāu keiki a i ʻike ʻia lākou he kaumaha loa, ua maikaʻi mau ka nānā ʻana i kāu pediatrician no ka maluhia o ka manaʻo.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo hōʻoluʻolu e pili ana i nā ʻeha ulu, ʻaʻole lākou e hana i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi a i ʻole nā pilikia lōʻihi. He mea maikaʻi loa lākou a ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia i ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki, ka hoʻomohala ʻana, a i ʻole ka olakino i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma kekahi ʻano.
ʻO nā pilikia nui e hālāwai ai nā mākua e komo pū me:
He manawa pōkole a hoʻokele ʻia kēia mau pilikia me ka hoʻomaopopo pono a me nā hana hōʻoluʻolu maʻalahi. ʻAʻole e hana nā ʻeha ulu i ka pōʻino i nā iwi, nā ʻiʻo, a i ʻole nā hono o kāu keiki, a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻopilikia i ka hoʻomohala kino maʻamau.
ʻAʻohe ho'āʻo kūikawā no nā ʻeha ulu. E ʻike ke kauka o kāu keiki iā lākou ma muli o kāu wehewehe ʻana i nā hōʻailona a me ka nānā kino ʻana i kāu keiki.
I ka wā o ka manawa, e nīnau paha ke kauka e pili ana i ka wā e loaʻa ai ka ʻeha, pehea ka manaʻo, a inā he mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi paha. E nānā pū lākou i nā wāwae o kāu keiki, e nānā ana i nā hōʻailona o ka pehu, ka palupalu, a i ʻole nā pilikia neʻe.
ʻO ka maʻamau ka ʻike ʻana inā kūlike nā hōʻailona o kāu keiki i ke ʻano maʻamau o nā ʻeha ulu. I ka nui o nā hihia, ʻaʻohe ho'āʻo hou e like me nā X-rays a i ʻole ka hana koko e pono ai, ʻoiai inā olakino a ikaika kāu keiki i ka lā.
ʻAʻole pono nā ʻeha ulu i ka mālama lapaʻau kūikawā, akā aia kekahi mau ala mālie e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e ʻoluʻolu hou aku i ka wā e loaʻa ai nā ʻeha. ʻO ka pahuhopu, ʻo ia ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoia i nā manawa ʻeha.
ʻO nā ala maikaʻi e hoʻomaha ai i nā ʻeha ulu e komo pū me:
Ua ʻike ka nui o nā keiki ua hāʻawi ka lomilomi wāwae mālie mai ka mākua i ka hōʻoluʻolu nui loa. ʻO ka hui pū ʻana o ka hōʻoluʻolu kino a me ka hōʻoia manaʻo e kōkua pinepine iā lākou e moe hou maʻalahi.
Ke nānā nei ka mālama home no nā ʻeha ulu i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoia. Pane maikaʻi ka nui o nā keiki i nā mālama maʻalahi a mālie e hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi maʻalahi i ka home i ka wā e loaʻa ai ka ʻeha.
Eia pehea ʻoe e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e ʻoluʻolu hou aku:
E hoʻomanaʻo he kōkua nui kāu noho mālie a me ka hōʻoia ʻana e like me nā mālama kino. Ua ʻike ka nui o nā keiki e ʻoluʻolu hou aku lākou ma ka ʻike wale ʻana ua hoʻomaopopo ko lākou mākua a aia lākou e kōkua.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pale loa i nā ʻeha ulu, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i ka hoʻemi ʻana i ko lākou pinepine a me ka ikaika me kekahi mau maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ke kī, ʻo ia ke kākoʻo ʻana i ka olakino ʻiʻo holoʻokoʻa o kāu keiki a me ka hoʻōla ʻana.
ʻO nā hana kōkua e komo pū me:
ʻOiai hiki i kēia mau ʻanuʻu ke kōkua, e hoʻomanaʻo he ʻāpana maʻamau o ka wā kamaliʻi nā ʻeha ulu no nā keiki he nui. Mai hopohopo inā loaʻa nō lākou ʻoiai kāu mau ho'āʻo pale maikaʻi loa - ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo e hana hewa ana ʻoe.
Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e kūkākūkā i nā ʻeha wāwae o kāu keiki me kā lākou kauka, hiki i ka hoʻomākaukau iki ke kōkua i ka hana hou ʻana o ka manawa. E kōkua ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kikoʻī kūikawā i kāu kauka e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano a me nā ʻano o ka ʻeha o kāu keiki.
Ma mua o ka manawa, e noʻonoʻo e mālama i:
Mai kānalua e lawe mai i nā hopohopo a i ʻole nā nīnau āu e loaʻa ai, ʻoiai he liʻiliʻi paha lākou. Aia kāu kauka e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea maʻamau a hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia e pili ana i ke olakino o kāu keiki.
ʻO nā ʻeha ulu he ʻāpana maʻamau a ʻino ʻole o ka wā kamaliʻi e hoʻopilikia ana i nā keiki olakino a ikaika he nui. ʻOiai hiki iā lākou ke ʻoluʻolu ʻole a hopohopo paha no nā mākua, he mea maʻamau loa lākou a ʻaʻole e hōʻike i nā pilikia olakino koʻikoʻi.
ʻO nā mea nui loa e hoʻomanaʻo ai, ʻo ia ka manawa pōkole nā ʻeha ulu, hiki ke mālama ʻia me nā lāʻau home maʻalahi, a ʻaʻole e hana i nā pilikia lōʻihi no kāu keiki. E ulu nui nā keiki iā lākou ma ke ʻano maoli i ko lākou mau makahiki.
Me ka mālama mālie, hoʻomanawanui, a me ka hōʻoia ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e hele maikaʻi i kēia mau manawa. E hilinaʻi i kāu mau manaʻo ma ke ʻano he mākua, akā e hoʻomanaʻo he ʻāpana maʻamau o ka ulu ʻana no nā keiki he nui kekahi mau ʻeha wāwae i ka pō.
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole i hana pololei ʻia nā ʻeha ulu e nā iwi e lōʻihi ana. E ulu mālie a me ka ʻole o ka ʻeha nā iwi. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka pilikia o ka ʻeha i ka luhi o nā ʻiʻo a me ka hoʻohana maʻamau mai nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā o kāu keiki e like me ka holo ʻana a me ka pāʻani ʻana.
E ulu nui nā keiki i nā ʻeha ulu ma mua o ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio, ma ka nui ma kahi o 12-14 mau makahiki. Eia naʻe, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia keiki - hiki i kekahi ke ho'ōki i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou ma mua, ʻoiai hiki i nā mea ʻē aʻe ke loaʻa nā manawa i ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi, e nalowale loa lākou i ka hopena.
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kāohi i nā hana maʻamau o kāu keiki ma muli o nā ʻeha ulu. ʻAʻole hōʻike kēia mau ʻeha i kahi hōʻeha a i ʻole ka pōʻino, a he mea nui ka noho ikaika no ke olakino holoʻokoʻa a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana o kāu keiki. E hōʻoia wale lākou e loaʻa ana ka hoʻomaha a me ka manawa hoʻōla lawa.
E loaʻa pinepine ana nā ʻeha ulu ma nā wāwae, ʻoi aku ka nui ma nā wāwae, nā ʻūhā, a ma hope o nā kuli. Inā loaʻa i kāu keiki ka ʻeha mau i ko lākou mau lima, kua, a i ʻole nā wahi ʻē aʻe, hiki i kēia ke ʻokoʻa e pono ai ke loiloi ʻia e kā lākou kauka.
ʻAe, e hoʻokaʻaʻike i kāu kauka inā loaʻa i kāu keiki ka ʻeha e mau ana i ka lā, hoʻopilikia wale i hoʻokahi wāwae, hele mai me ka pehu a i ʻulaʻula paha, hana i ka kīloi, a i ʻole e hele pū me ka maʻi wela. ʻAʻole pono nā ʻeha ulu maoli e hoʻopilikia i ka hiki o kāu keiki ke hele a pāʻani maʻamau i ka lā.